To understand the power of love and to be in a marriage and a relationship are two completely different things. Love in its purest form is something worth living for, something worth even dying for, but being a relationship or marriage is making a huge compromise and learning how to share your life with someone else.
Because of that, you have to know a few things that are going to help you keep your head always free of negative thoughts and to be always given the opportunity to show your love in its most powerful ways- both physically and emotionally.
Here are 8 rules that will help you become the best version of yourself in a relationship and understand the concept of a relationship as a whole.
1. Always be yourself.
If you want to be the best version of yourself, first you need to take of all of the masks and be the true self.
2. Be confident.
Confidence is crucial. Have faith that all in this universe is driven by the energy. If your gut is telling you something- do not hesitate- take the chance!
3. Don’t settle for less.
Know what you want and let others know too. Do not settle for less because you will suffer in regret. Be with the person that you truly love and deserves you.
4. People rarely change.
When I said don’t change for your partner, the opposite of this is also true. Don’t try to make changes in your partner. Somehow, people remain the same as much as you would like them to change. So there is no point wasting your time and energy on something that isn’t going to happen.
5. Looks are still important.
Well, they do. Let’s not deny the importance of physical attraction and for it to happen looks are also important.
6. There is a bug difference between love and lust.
You have to understand the difference between love and lust. Sometimes all that we feel for our partner is just lust and we keep thinking that we are in love. So you have to learn to distinguish between love and lust.
7. Love only is not enough.
We see in the movies that love is everything that we need. But this isn’t true. There are a lot of things that make a relationship great like understanding and compatibility. So don’t think that all you need is just fairy tale love.
8. Let go of ‘Shoulda, Woulda,Coulda’ .
Life is happening right there and right now. You must not waste time overthinking unproductively about the things you should’ve done, could’ve done or would’ve done.Focus on making clear decisions for the future and detach from thoughts that make you feel bad.