If You Detach From These 20 Mental Barriers, Your Life Will Change For 180°
We really don’t have to mention in this article that detachment is one of the crucial elements for securing careless life, strong attitude, own identity and progressive future. Under this detachment, we refer to all things from the past and the present that block your prosperous future.
Most of us are really unaware of the whole negativity and toxicity all around us. We are people, we tend to develop and adapt. However, most of the people adapt to the modern ‘trends’- to live fast, materialistic, consumeristic and superficial lifestyle, free of true obligations, moral and ethic principles and LOVE.
We suffer from being hit by negative vibes and low-frequency vibrations all the time. The solution is to change the lifestyle, to change the manners, the way we see and feel the world. We have to destroy the barrier, detach from the negative lifestyle and focus on what’s really important in life.
The forces that weight us down and don’t let us go are just an illusion. You can do it and say: ‘THIS IS THE END!’ To gain that spiritual strength and secure emotional balance to fully detached from all negativity, you should just let go of these 20 mental barriers.
If you open these gates, happiness will enter in your life easily:
1. LET GO OF ATTACHMENTS:
Attachment is one of the roots of all suffering. Let us not take pride in our possessions which are of temporary nature.
One has to be grateful to the ‘higher power’ bestowing on us with these possessions rather than taking pride and feel too much attached to them.2. LET GO OF GUILT:
Feeling deep sense of guilt in our mind will distract positivity. Needs to shun instantly.
What could guilt possibly solve? If you name a thing I will agree with you and pull back my words… yeah, that’s what I thought.
3. LET GO OF SELF CRITICISM:
A constant fear of self-criticism turns one to a situation of disempowerment.
Those who are deficient in self esteem are likely to be carried away by any self- criticism and return to self pity mood and suffer mental agony.
Remaining inactive is the instant solution for those who suffer from the risks of self criticism.
4. LET GO OF PREJUDICES:
A prejudiced mind is another serious mental barrier that promotes ill feelings, resentment, turns risky and becomes a serious road block for a good relationship.5. LET GO OF
Negativity creates a dark aura that does not permit optimism to seep in.
Such persons always have a jaundiced view of things, causing all sorts of problems.
6. LET GO OF COMPULSIVE THINKING:
Let us learn to avoid compulsive thinking and concentrate on the utility, efficacy and usefulness of it for long term relationships.
7. SEEKING OTHER’S APPROVAL:
It kills your initiative and drive and makes you look small in the eyes of others. A state of inferiority complex sets in.
8. LET GO OF GRUDGES:
Keeping grudges is not only a bad habit; it is bad for one health and well being.9. LET GO
9. LET GO OF LIMITING BELIEFS:
Some beliefs are self created and self imposed. One has to retrospect them to arrive at their utility.
Just grasp the idea that everything you can imagine is real.
10. LET GO OF POSTPONING THINGS FOR TOMORROW:
Postponing things that need to be done today, rather than tomorrow is a laid back approach.
Time and tide do not wait for any one. Doing it today rather than doing it next day is a wise dictum.
11. LET GO OF ANXIOUS THOUGHTS:
These thoughts are borne out of inbuilt fears and anxiety. Distract one goal and determination.
12. LET GO OF HEART BREAK:
As our heart locks our mind, heart breaks do create a mental vacuum.
We need to forget such incidents and move forward for a new inning.
13. LET GO OF BAD MEMORIES:
It is better to forget bad memories and keeping them at bay. Learn from them, don’t keep them locked in you.
They can create an enormous damage in every sphere.
14. LET GO OF USELESS THINGS:
One must master the art of discarding useless things, including people. Art of Discarding, book by a Japanese author speaks about the importance of letting useless things go. The wording ‘useless’ explains it all.
15. LET GO OF BAD COMPANY:
“A man is known by the company he keeps” is a wise saying. As a rotten fruit spoil the rest in the basket, keeping bad company does the same. It takes away the sheen in the quality of friendship.
We should appreciate various shades of friendship and choose shades judiciously. Throw all the negative people away, no matter how hard it is…
16. LET GO OF PAST:
Let us learn to forget the bad experiences of the past and learn lessons from past mistakes and misadventures.
17. LET GO OF IDENTIFYING WITH ROLE:
Identifying ourselves with a particular role limits our scope of work and we miss our identity.
We will eventually become a typecast character. It is better to come out of this rut as quickly as possible.
18. LET GO OF TAKING THINGS PERSONALLY:
Taking things personally to ones’ heart is a bad personality trait. It is counterproductive to one positive behavior and well being.
It kills all the initiatives and drives.
19. LET GO OF THE TICKING CLOCK:
This can accumulate the biggest stress as it makes us slaves of the time we have. This devours one genuine freedom.
Respect the time but not the ticking clock.
20. LET GO OF COUNTERPRODUCTIVE HABITS:
Those habits that distract or obstruct your productivity have to be let go of.