9 Sings You Have Incredibly Strong Personality, But You Are Soft And Sensitive On The Inside
Well, when we observe and research the human soul, we certainly come to a conclusion that we definitely have to acknowledge ourselves better, discover new things about ourselves and see how confronting with itself is the human personality.
Of course, this happens because of the intense conflicts between the Id-Ego-Superego. This means that we may be way different on the inside than the way we act in front of others. Actually, the strongest people on the outside could be the most sensitive on the inside.
Now, we will show you the 9 crucial signs that prove you have a crazy strong personality, but sensitive soul:
1. You still get overwhelmed.
The world is very overwhelming for you, it’s just the badass in you doesn’t let that stop you from doing whatever it is you want to do. You know that you are in full control of your life, and when things get tough, you never give up – no matter how scared you are, you just roll up your sleeves and get stronger.
2. You call people out, but it’s always thought out and for a good reason.
You aren’t the type of person who will sit silently in front of someone feeling disrespected and not say anything. So you’ll call them out on their shit and set boundaries, but it will always be constructive. Because you are also sensitive, you were born with a really acute awareness to detail, so you’re likely to pick up on things around you that others may miss.
3. You still need a lot of time to recharge.
You need time for yourself. Because you’re fearless and strong, people expect you to be their wingman/woman at any given time or event. But in reality, sometimes you prefer to stay at home and unwind – you’re still quite sensitive to your environment and are irritated by things easily.
4. You’re very selective about who you date.
You can’t stand meat markets like Tinder, or small talk on a first date. You need real human interactions and you never settle unless you find a real connection. Being highly intuitive makes dating that much harder for you-you’re able to sniff out the BS quite fast and have a very low tolerance for it, so that doesn’t leave you with many people in the dating world.
5. You need “real” talk.
You hate when people cover up their true feelings. You can always sense when people are being untruthful and it causes you to be very overwhelmed and distracted. Mainly because you will try to spend each second of the hour trying to figure out what’s wrong.
6. You’re not really bitching, you’re just sensitive to all the idiots in the world.
Being strong and badass has nothing to do with holding in your feelings. Yeah, you might complain a lot, but honestly you’re just highly sensitive to all the moronic buffoons in the world – and there are a lot of them.
7. You’re a good listener.
You really know when to shut up. You know there’s a time and place for your sturdy opinions and you will never just talk to say something or keep talking when people have tuned out, you’re too intuitive to the people around you for that.
8. You don’t need to be the center of attention.
You might often find yourself being the center of attention, but you never purposely put yourself there. People are naturally drawn to you, but you’re always more worried about them than yourself. You hate it when people show off, you just don’t understand that need for attention.
9. Sometimes you get quiet.
You’re pretty badass at your core, but that doesn’t mean you don’t get quiet. You sometimes get overwhelmed by people if you don’t know them and/or don’t vibe with them, which consequently makes you withdraw into yourself and become reflective.